I’m a baby gay and someone made a comment in the LGBT bowl about wondering whether femme4femme has the same social implication as masc4masc. What does that mean? Can anyone pls explain

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In the gay community, people will put “no femmes”, “masc4masc”, etc in their profiles indicating that they don’t want to be with people who present as gay. It has been interpreted by many as internalized homophobia. It’s become kind of a meme, because many of those people look like a caricature of masculinity. Just google masc4masc starter pack.

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Thank you so much for this great explanation. This makes sense!

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