i’ve defaulted my state of mind to a fixed point of depression, unhappy with where i am in life. i feel less of myself than i know i’m worth. i feel defeated… 🥺😢

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Sounds like you’re not the corporate type. Me either. Banking $ from this job so I can leave. Takes all kinds…hippies, yuppies, etc. I’m glad there are all kinds of people to make the world go round. Embrace your wildness! 😁

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