I’m planning on leaving my job in the next month or so. I already have a few interviews set up, so I’ve been thinking a lot about what I’ll eventually tell my boss. Basically, I’ve been incredibly unhappy and desperate for a change as expectations are just unsustainable. I’m worried, because a few people have left my team in the past few months and she seems to take it very personally and becomes pretty passive aggressive. Any advice for how to approach this convo (eventually)?

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Leave absolutely no feedback. Say you’re grateful for the experience and you’ll be moving on. End the conversation as quick as possible.

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1) I wouldn’t worry about that until you have to, when you’re actually leaving. Job hunting can take time.
2) You have to take care of you first.

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Is your main concern, expressing yourself honestly about what you’re leaving? Or that your boss will be petty and vindictive about you leaving? If it’s the latter, you just say it was a good experience but it’s time to move on. If they’re really a jerk, it’s not like honest feedback will change them anyway.

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You don’t owe them an explanation. Agree with the above, say thanks for the opportunity, you’ve learned a lot, and would love to keep the door open for the future (even if you don’t, just don’t burn the bridge). You could also say with COVID you feel you need a change to explore other avenues. The pandemic is making everyone evaluate their choices, so that’s an easy reason. Keep it light, vague, and that this is what you need.

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Your manager doesn’t care about your feedback and nothing will change by you expressing why you’re leaving.

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If your boss has a history of being passive aggressive, that’s even more of a reason to leave on a high note. Be professional, thank them for the experience working together, and wish them the best. Your resignation is not a place for feedback- it’s not going to impact change and it may even backfire on you.

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be honest, save your replacement from this hell

Wow! Thanks for all the helpful replies. To clarify, I’m absolutely not planning on sharing feedback bc I know it wouldn’t go over too well / I would be blamed for whatever problems I say I’ve had. I’m more thinking about how to be absolutely as least controversial as possible and survive those last 2 weeks without too much emotional damage... which I guess ultimately don’t matter in the grand scheme of things 🤷🏽‍♀️

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