Is there a way to report your partner to their company for domestic violence? Or is that dumb?

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That is dumb and vindictive. If it is true, call the police and leave the relationship. Otherwise, don’t play games.

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If it is true you want police involved for sure - just reporting them at work could put you in a dangerous situation

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Go to a safe house and call the police. This has nothing to do with work, they couldn’t do
Anything for your problems anyway, only the police can do something at this point.

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Call police and get out. Get yo a safe place away from them asap.

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Call the police, not your spouse’s place of work. At best, someone mentions it to your spouse but they keep their job. At worst, your spouse gets fired. Either situation will make your spouse enraged and even more violent towards you. Call the police, pack your bags and go somewhere safe and away from your spouse, preferably you can be with family or friends but do not go where he or she most expects you to go. Finally, warn your friends and family if you feel safe to do so, in case he or she comes looking for you and potentially endangers your loved ones in the process.

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Domestic violence is unacceptable. You can report this to his office, but i doubt if it'll help.
Approach the police if you really want some action to be taken. But atleast give him a strict warning beforehand. If he doesn't stop even after the warning, then file a complaint with police.

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That errs more toward a vindictive action than self-protection.

What would doing that accomplish?

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Take pictures. Document the abuse. Write journals. Security cameras capture anything? You need to report it to the police. Even if you don't leave or go through, report it then say you don't wanna press charges at the very least. Bc you want to have some record of it. I'll be praying for you.

Bang bang shoot em up girl

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Nah bro don’t do that. As an HR myself, if I get a random call from some dude saying his wife beats him up, I can’t do shit. Even with evidence my response would be for you to approach law enforcement. Something which may work is to tag her and her company on LinkedIn. But this will eff up you and your career in many ways. Vengeance has no limits and is never ending, be very careful with what you do. I would rate domestic abuse higher than infidelity for getting a divorce. Risky risky business. Try and get out of it soon. Wish you good luck and peace.

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I know how you feel and I’ve thought about doing the same. It’s tough.

Wouldn’t going to the police kill two birds with one stone?

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Jesus. Why the hell ask us. You have bigger issues. Get safe

Aside from report them to the police and live the home; you can write about it on social media so everyone can know that they are a monster. I wouldn't contact their workplace, that would only make things worst and they might try to unalive you for that.

Got it man 😄, first time hearing it. Nice!

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