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I definitely don’t think you’re overthinking. People often have unconscious biases and that may be at play here.
Thank you!
I'm sorry that that happened to you. I agree with SPM1, I also don't think you are overthinking. And in giving people the benefit of not assuming negative intentions, I doubt that they actively conspired not to send you a card/flowers, but it was the result of some messed up manifestation of unconscious bias
Continued- I noticed however out of all my colleagues that lost someone and I signed their cards, etc, I am the only POC. Am I overthinking? I don’t mean to compare tragedies, just the treatment of each.
You’re not overthinking. Black grief and traumatic life experiences don’t matter because many of them only feel empathy for those who look like them. I honestly would start looking.
Hows your relationship with your boss? In the past. I noticed it’s the persons boss who does the flowers. Bdays, baby showers etc. It usually doesn’t come from the company per se. It’s more the boss putting in the request & getting cards signed.
There is no excuse.