My friend is blaming me for not taking her bschool acceptance and choosing to stay in her consulting job where she’s at risk of being counseled out. I don’t think that’s fair. She asked me what my experience was like and I shared I found my mba to be average at best and wouldn’t have done it had I gone back. However she’s a smart person. She should realize mba is very different person to person. Is it fair to blame me whatsoever here?

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Did you say something very direct like, "I wouldn't do it if I were you" ?

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No - I just said I wouldn’t have done it if I went back in time.

She sounds immature. Everyone needs to own their own decisions in life.

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Tell her that her lack of accountability a negative attitude is probably what’s getting her counseled out.

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That's why I finish my advices like - At the end of the day, it's your life and you are the best decision-maker. We can all share our perspectives but decision has to be yours.

I used that disclaimer at the end as well ha. She said I gave very biased advice

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