My friends and family think I have a tendency to be a little neurotic... anyone else in this boat? Any advice? I definitely have anxiety and can be a worrier but I’m not weird about cleaning or anything and I don’t let these worries hold me back from actually doing anything (besides covid stuff, and even then I’ve been on the lax side and go to stores and such).

I am preparing for my first trial! Very nervous but excited. All tips and suggestions welcomed please!

I just started taking mirtazapine again b/c depression has completely taken over my life.

Not looking forward to the weight gain 😕

Does anyone have a respiratory specialist that they’d recommend? How do you guys find specialist doctors?

Hi team,
How's the medical insurance for parents in Mindtree? Is it worth or should I opt for external health insurance? Could anyone pls guide? Parent is nearly 60 now.

Anyone use a lawyer to get increased disability? If so, any recommendations?

Anyone here downshift in life post service?

Feel like I've been going full bore for the past decade and literally have no problem continuing the trend. Like I could just keep marking milestones and grinding or whatever until I die.

Wondering when if anyone else felt similar and decided to pull back and do something more relaxing. What was the catalyst, what are you doing, and are you enjoying it?

I'd considered taking up a 9-5 somewhere but not sure if thatd wear off fast.

I have a therapist that I see twice a month and it has helped me to some extent. I feel like I’m in a general plateau. I feel like we are going through some repetitive themes that I see and understand. I have high functioning depression and I’m going through the “and what?” Phase of it all. Is this common? How do you move on?

Any performace testers in nagarro.. plz dm

I had an interview last week and waiting is raising my anxiety. I am on anxiety medications and it doesn’t seem to help. I don’t know why I am getting anxious as I already know I can not control the

When I get mild anxiety during a conversation I press my thumb agains one of my other fingers and it helps me relax a bit. Does anybody else do this? 😭

Just got my offer accepted for a house in San Jose. Shopping for interest rate now:
Should I got for
7ARM - 4.25% interest rate
30 fixed - 4.75 % interest rate

Banker is recommending 7ARM but wanted to get general opinion as well.

Thoughts?

Is 2023 the return of sales?
Covid has completely changed buying strategies of big corp as companies looked to retain and reset with what they have. What type of change do you see big corps taking this next year to drive growth?

Panic attacks and anxiety for public speaking in front of strangers. Anyone in a simular situation who have tried Toastmasters?

Apartment gym and pool have opened back up ! Finally!!!

Any gym recommendation in Central London that I can access with ClassPass? Ideally around Oxford street/ Euston

Is opening a boxing gym worth it?

Quit the booze back in September. It mostly hasn't been that hard but I can't get a grip on my emotions this week. Feeling overwhelming sadness for no real reason. (Cont)

Anyone looking for a resource manager or creative recruiter?

I’m white.. and a man. Shhh, don’t tell anyone.

Hi,
My date of joining in TCS is 16th November 2022

- Will the onboarding be virtual or physical?
- How many days would it take before I get a laptop and start working?

Hi fishers,

I'm a Programmer Analyst with over 2.8 years of experience in SAS and SQL.
My preferred location is Chennai/Bangalore.
Currently I'm looking for a job switch and it's kind of urgent.
Can someone please refer me if your company has any opening for SAS and SQL.

Thanks in advance..

What kind of ratings are you supposed to give your counselee in LEAD feedback? Should be give one less than gold standard to everyone

The pandemic, mental health issues, and financial stress caused my work to suffer. What do I do?

Hi Fishes,
Is anyone getting calls from naukri for java and Springboot roles?
My yoe: 2.8
Or hiring is slowed down due to current situation?
Please let me know

Have a blessed Advent and a new Church year!

Mental health is busy, looking for tips to help manage tasks, currently I supervise 12 therapists in 3 different departments that are all different with unique dynamics in each dept. I still carry a small caseload on top of this. I'm struggling with my patients and worry I am not giving them my best, I wax and wane between focusing on patients and therapists. Looking for advice navigating this type od conversation with my leadership, we have all been asked to work on increase billable time...

Hello Sharks,
Will global logic provide food and cab?

Any opportunity in Gl in .Net position having 5.2 years of IT experience and 3.8 years experience in .net.

Justifying the Sheraton's painful bed to yourself because the Four Seasons don't recognize your loyalty

Any really impactful books that have helped you career-wise? Not necessarily consulting focused. In need of guidance and a new book so figured I'd kill two birds with one stone or whatever.

As a manager, when do you know you’re ready for the senior manager level?

Joined my firm at the beg of the year. Have a networking event (30-40) ppl in the office which it would be a good idea to go to, but I won't know anyone. Smallish office; how not be weird? 😔

Hey everyone. I’m looking for a 1-time apartment cleaning service here in Philly. I’m thinking mopping, vacuuming, and cleaning the kitchen. Any recommendations?

Practicing lawyer for 12 years in education law. Worked in Hollywood and have a degree in film/television. Also, have directed/produced independent films. So, I do have some Entertainment business experience already. Looking to do some Entertainment Law, specifically motion picture work. Can anyone recommend some good CLE courses or conferences I should check out? Any other advice that may be helpful?

will cognizant blacklist me if i didn't join. my joining date in cognizant is 24th april and thinking of emailing my decision today.

Would anyone from ZS have some time for a chat? Saw a job posting that is perfectly aligned with my experience and would love to learn more about the firm, and perhaps get a referral. Thank you in advance!

What’s your favorite WFH footwear? Any recommended brands for a chilly home office?

Favorite news channel?

Any recs for a comfy tv chair ~100 bucks?

Quarantine has really made me think about life. If I can’t scuba, then what’s this all been about? What have I been working toward?

THERE'S A WHOLE NOTHER HALF HOUR OF THIS

Where can I get the covid rapid test in jersey city without any wait?

My superiors are asking me to contact CEOs of debtors to chase payments. We’re in B2B and payments are usually 30 days or more. As soon as we get someone over that and they don’t provide a payment date, I’m being asked to contact their CEOs somehow and demand payment. I think it’s dumb, will hurt the relationship and I also don’t want to ruin my reputation. Thoughts?

We are all sleep walkers (specifically in Europe) walking towards the second wave of corona virus cases and potential lock-downs even though we should all know better.
Change my mind!

I have recovered from Corona Virus. Its 6 weeks now and I can tell you that the after effects are real. I have anxiety that I will never get over the fatigue, brain fog, inability to form sentences and words and headaches which make my work days very difficult to get thru.

Comedy or good drama shows on Netflix or Amazon Prime to binge this holiday?

What value do TPMs provide? In my company all they seem to do is tell other people to work on things they’re already working on, and incessantly nag people on slack for status updates and timelines which you’ve already provided.

Deloitte UK - does anyone know the salary band for Manager role in Technology and a Senior Manager in Technology Risk Management? A rough idea please?

Looking for a new credit card - currently use Apple Card as my daily. It’s ok. Interested in Chase Sapphire Reserve, but unsure the annual fee is worth it without being able to go to restaurants or travel a ton. Suggestions?

Even though having COVID back in November was miserable, felt good today being able to donate convalescent plasma to hopefully help someone in need.

I have obtained a terrible habit of working from my bed.

Most exotic name you’ve heard: drop below!

With this WFH life & the pandemic I’ve barely been moving. I started walking daily since a few days ago and it kicks my butt. My legs are actually sore from walking? It’s really sad but I’m glad I’ve taken in this initiative and wanted to share 😂