My going to be in laws seem cold today when I am not even married. There are absolutely no things that are being planned for me, on the other hand I see a lot of people doing bride to be favors and think about their daughter in laws before hand.

I have not had any concern about this if I had to live in a different city from my in laws. It makes me worried and it’s just 2 months left for the wedding.
Not sure what to do, open to suggestions.

I went through my gf’s phone and found out she had a crush on my best friend when we first started dating (over a year ago). I suspected this at first but it hurts to have it confirmed and see her telling her friends about him. I’m not sure how I should feel since I went out of line to look through her phone.

How do you handle people’s kids showing up on video meetings? Screaming, kicking, hamming it up, (wasting time.) Everyone else is coo-ing…I’m not a kids person. Heard a technique which is to drop off the call bc you “assume the call is over” (which seems like a great way to get fired especially if it’s a way higher up’s kids - plus it feels rather passive aggressive.) Thoughts?

Dear crypto and other investments,

I have come to the realization that I absolutely do not want to work for the rest of my life. I would much rather spend my time living it up with my gf and the boys, traveling the world and living my life. Therefore, I am counting on you to not be an endless disappointment and come through clutch.

Love, someone who will go full office space if you fail me.

Dropped off my kids to school this morning and just felt unsettled. It’s so hard to concentrate on work today.

3 years ago I distanced my long term love and chose my ambition to complete an MS and create something for both of us in hopes to get back to her as a grown independent man. I lost her for not being there “enough”. Should I regret it? Should i have chosen Love and regretted not achieving my dreams? (We are 27, we fell in love when we were 15) I was a no one back in the day but now it’s totally different, i am debt free, financially stable and ready to settle down.

What resources would you recommend to find a full time nanny in Houston? Any specific websites, services, groups or places that have worked for you in the past?

I spent an hour today sitting with one of my patients getting a chemo infusion. Lonely and weird time to not have his wife in there with him

I am done trying to pretend everything is fine at work. The higher ups on the team kept asking if I’m doing anything fun for the weekend during video calls. I felt the pressure to make something up but I just can’t. I’ve been struggling with depression, loneliness, anxiety with immigration and the fact that I might be out of work soon cuz my visa is expiring. I’m thousands of miles away from my family and I just want everything to stop. But when my manager kept asking in front of everyone am I

Here to tell you guys that each of us mending from either leaving a bad relationship or having some leave us: things are going to be amazing for us! I believe if for myself and I am so happy! And meeting new people is FUN. Laughing with friends and being yourself, away from all the drama, pain. Liberate yourself by deciding this breakup is your evolution into your best self!

I made a mistake. I talked with the ex this morning. He said he misses me. And that while he walk talking to the other woman, he wished he was talking to me instead. And when he saw that I didn’t respond to his texts, he drank a shit ton. And then called this morning.

He’s not willing to commit to the other women because he’s not over me.

I need to block him.

It’s week 5 for me of the breakup and even though I had a full and fun weekend with friends and people I love, I woke up today so so sad because I wanted to text my ex. I just feel overall so defeated and exhausted from sadness and unmotivated at work :(

Perspective: monogamy is anti-human nature; in this era where each parent could raise a kid independently, marriage tends to be a shackle on many aspects of life. We live once, why does society expect us to live with 1 person for 60+ years? No wonder divorce rates are through the roof!

Anyone raising desi kids in the US? What are are some of your fears?

What was the most surprising thing you have learned throughout the process of your divorce?

Salam. 23M here - all my life I’ve had my back on our faith - never really prayed but had imaan (I guess). After bouts of depression from girl problems (🙄), issues within immediate family, being disappointed expectations I had for myself, etc. I’ve been working on bettering my situation over the years. Faith is the only area where I think I need more guidance. Having trouble relating to friends or family about this. Anyone else been thru something similar? How have you connected back to Islam?

I am generally uncomfortable when I’m around my mother-in-law’s husband.

While he is overall a decent guy, his anger issues, yelling at his wife for the slightest issue, and insulting nature makes me uncomfortable and triggers my own anger due to his blatant disrespect for just about everyone around him.

My mother-in-law says he’s worked on things, but it’s been 10 years of this and I’m not sure I want such behavior around my wife and our kids since we’re trying to conceive soon (cont).

Hadn’t noticed this sub before, and most of the threads are old so thought I’d ask a follow up - how has everyone been handling parenting with public accounting? I’ve got a toddler and my wife is an accountant (industry), and we only have a few immediate family in the country- but they have health concerns. Busy season was rough, things are looking better now as things return to normal. Still working crazy hours if you count the daycare duties on top of utilization targets.

How do you manage the constant school cancellations? Do I need a nanny in addition to daycare?

It’s been 3 years since I (27F) moved to Seattle and still don’t have a solid social circle. Not necessarily a big group… I’m talking 3-4 friends who are easy going and not flakey/ hard to make plans with.

Idk if it’s due to Covid, Seattle freeze, a combination of the two or other factors. Any transplants out there who are NOT the outdoorsy type and feel the same? And if so, how did you get past it?

Anyone work in nonprofit tax? What exit opportunities are available with 3-6 years experience? Hoping to be promoted to senior this year and curious what options exist with this specialized skill set.

Hi folks!

Currently interviewing with Mastercard data and services for the consultant role.
Wanted to enquire about the travel opportunities in this role, be it within India or outside. I personally enjoy travelling and have travelled quite a bit during my consultant stint previously. However, not sure of what the norm is within Mastercard.

Thanks!

Accenture can you guys go back to Marriott and fix their customer service please I've been on hold for 30 minutes and I still have missing nights

What’s the best store you’ve ever worked at and why?

Is blockfi only a bank and not really investing in crypto?

What makes a good soldier in your opinion?

Hi folks,
I'm looking for Referrals for Talent Acquisition Position having 1 year experience.

If you like where you work, please share!!

Best Drizly promo codes worth $10 and up?

$5 is easy to find but $10 ensures a free delivery 😜

Has anyone here used New Western to buy real estate deals?

Looking for recommendations on Azure learning and certifications, specifically learning tracks for Systems Administrators and Engineers. I'm specifically looking for the MS equivalent of a VMware VCP course/certs.

If you have a learning course or books you'd recommend I'd appreciate your feedback. 🙂

What should be expected package for Senior Bizops Engineer.

YEO - 7.9
Current CTC -13.13
Offer form another company -18.70

Could you please provide your suggestion .

Thanks in advance

For folks who’ve done R1/R2 interviews at BCG… how useful did you find the CaseCoach courses? I’m a week out before my R1 and I’m wondering if it’s going to be time we’ll-spent. Would love to hear “ignore this, definitely do that” sorts of advice if possible. (For background: I’m familiar with Victor Cheng, I’m using RocketBlocks, practicing live cases, consumed a bunch of YouTube videos, etc.)

I have a CKD patient who is really struggling with their diet. I tried to help but whoa, it is involved!

Hi everyone, I am an ios developer with 7 years of experience. I have exposure in both Objective-C and Swift. I am looking out for a job change. Please see if you can refer me. I can join immediately.

Preferred Location: Bangalore

Any tech companies with robust legal ops departments hiring? I’ve been staff side in big law for 5+ years and have a systems implementation and project management background. Looking for exit opportunities. Thanks!

Hi Folks,
There are openings in Thoughtworks for Senior Data Engineer
Experience required : 5+years
On Tech Stack : Spark, Scala or Python, SQL, Kafka or spark streaming and any cloud service
Direct message me for referral if you fit the above mentioned criteria

Hi friends,
Any idea about the SAP hybris commerce vacancy in SAP?
I want referral if there is any vacancy.

Hi Girls,

Anyone staying at Amanora in Pune, let me know if anyone can join me for an evening walk

Hello fishes,

I'm a Business Analyst with 1.2 years of experience and currently, I'm trying to switch to a different organization.

I have worked on and have been part of various analysis and case studies in my current project and have experience working on Bridge Insurity tool, Python , SQL ,C#, .NET, Data Structures and Algorithms.

Please refer me if there are any related opportunities in your firm.

Thankyou!

Hi everyone,
I have a fully furnished room in an already set and functional flat to sublet. It is located in sector 38 gurgaon, near Medanta.
PS: it’s a girls flat

Require Female Flatmate.
Location Pune Office Kharadi
Vegetarian
Non Smoker
Flat available from July 5th.
Within 1km from office in a gated society.
3 Bhk flat with basic fittings including AC.
Rent 40k/3.

Hi all, anybody looking for a flatmate to move around 1st week of April in Pune?

Hi
Currently I'm staying in Amanora Park Town.
Can anyone please give me contacts for good dance class around?

Hey all
I am looking for a female flatmate to share a 2bhk with me.
Gurgaon office
Flat is within 1 km from office.

anyone up for a chat?

Hey anyone has any requirements for website and mobile app development or ux/ui ? A friend looking for freelance work .
Any reference will be appreciated thanks

Is there difference between BTSA role and 'business technology analyst' role at ZS

Hi everyone

I am looking for single occupancy near Pune office - ITPP/Kharadi
Will be shifting by Dec

Looking for a change. Can someone help
Role- PD
Exp- 4 years
Expertise - Ops, Training, L&D, Superannuation, Shared Services.

Need it on an urgent basis

If our mental health is not good at the moment, how do we convey it to the team? Most of the folks in my team take such things lightly and I feel weird to let them know about it. So I just have to lie and put a sick leave.
Also, even before friday ends, I start to stress about monday… and I think that is wrong. We should look forward to work and not stress about it but sadly the people around me here make me want to leave the office.
Please tell me what to dooo?

If rejected after an interview, does the candidate receive any rejection emails? It has been 2 weeks since final interview and not received any response.

Hi fishes, I am a dentist and did Masters in hospital administration from IIHMR B. Currently I am working as Cerner EHR support analyst since Aug2021. Can someone refer me to ZS, healthcare solutions. Thanks in advance

Women- if your husband says he fantizes about xyz actresses and models- how would you feel?

Hi All,

I just wanted to understand how's it like... Working at ZS.
Especially as A data science associate?

Hello Beautiful ladies of ZS. Heard many in ZS are looking to refer some female. I am a woman looking for a referral to join ZS in Knowledge management. I already applied and my Aptitude test is on Monday 14th. Need help :)

Hi Everyone,
I am looking for a job change , I have 8+ years of experience . I have 6 years of experience in HR generalist and 2 years in Knowledge management.
My current package is 8.2 lakhs and expected is 12 - 15 lakhs
Request you all to fine me a good opportunity I will be grateful to you all


Hoping for positive response.