My manager mentioned to me that she was part of the reason that I survived the Covid19 layoffs last year and that I should be thankful to her.
Here’s my issue - I have been highly ranked in my annual reviews 3 years in a row, why would It even be a discussion topic? Is it logical to think there is someone at the top who wants me gone or am I overthinking this.

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I think it's just as likely your manager is blowing smoke.

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Yeah definitely gaslighting you.

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Overthinking totally. Don’t invest anymore energy into this.

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Ask ur manager what feedback she or others have to help you not be in that position again. If no constructive feedback (like increasing visibility or working on some specific skills) than disregard. Deff dont loose sleep over it

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Thank you guys 🙏🏽

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You probably want to have a quiet word with your supervising Partner and HR this kind of behaviour is unacceptable. It’s unacceptable it’s happened to you but if she’s doing it to you, she’s probably doing it to others.

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Thanks MD1. Great to get your support on this!

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