My wife hates my parents becoz my parents are easy going and don't believe in traditional values. Wife is full of orthodox and follows a tradition like how Indians will follow rules in foreign countries. I don't know how to handle both sides. From last few months i am going through mental stress , not getting sleep. Always tensed. I am also not feeling good after drinking also these days.

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