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Because as per our Indian culture boys looks for beauty and girls looks for salary. But ye there are always exceptions. Imagine a girl posted ugly picture of her and didn't receive any requests and then does makeover, she would get thousands of requests 😂
Ey1, u nailed it🤣🤣
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It is always about the money a male earns. A man is loved (if that happens) under a condition that he should always provide. In today's day and age,having an expectation of unconditional love from anyone is living in a fools paradise( Parents are the only exemption).
Living cost in metro cities is very high. 40-50 k mein guzara mushkil hai.. rent of 1bhk apartment was 12k in 2017 now i m returning to office and that taklaa landlord asking for 20k for same flat
Is that you??
P.S:
Takla - check
Landlord - Check
Ohh wait, mera 2bhk hai...
Rising Star
Delete your profile and lead a happy life. Why have a relationship that’s only gonna be around if you’re minting good money. Take care and have fun with the people (including you) who were there even when you were earning 4 lpa or nothing at all. If in future you fall in love and wish to marry then go ahead. Please don’t marry for the sake of marrying. I know it is easier said than done; and I’m probably projecting my sub-conscious wish that I have for me onto you, but still.
Parents will also agree after sometime. Give them some time too, but don't succumb to the pressure of marrying. Situation could be worse than present or good also. But in today's materialistic world, chances are high it could become worse. So choose wisely. All the best !!?
Can't blame girls in everything
Who will marry 4 lpa person
It's not enough to lead a married life today
Women has all rights to enjoy equality as per their convenience. If there is advantage then equality, if there is disadvantage then patriarchy.
Apne ko toh 20 pe bhi bhav na milta.
Mai to bas sunke hi hairaan hn ke 5 company ke offer mil jaate hain and usmein bhi choose karne ke liye sochna padta hai....
Bhai yahan sookha pada rehta hai...aakaal..
Saala mai HR ko pehle hi bol deta hn ke yeh package chahiye...hoga to hi call karo....99% hr call nahi karti...agar koi call kar deti hai to selection ke baad mein sabji waale ki tarah negotiation shuru ho jaata hai....I am getting sick of this...
My package at the time of my marriage was 5.2. My wifes annual package was 7. We got married thinking that things will change in coming days. My girl supported me.
Now I have package of 15 and my wife is earning 10.
Things are going smoothly.
Only thing is the you nd ur partner should have trust in urselves.
Nothing against you as such but I felt there was no need to mention abt your current numbers..
Maybe I am being overly critical. NOM.
Don't get me wrong, I hear something simlar from girls too..like, after going to beauty parlor, after changing the way i look, after I changed the way I dress, boys started proposing me..why so..?
Take it easy and move on I life..
Yes this happened with me recently I did a switch and casually updated the salary section in my shaadi profile belive me I had never got so many request in an year which I got in that day 😆
Maze maze me bhi badha ke dekha hai humne toh..aukaad pata chal jaati
Pro
What’s wrong with that? Every parent want their daughters to get married to someone who is financially better off and stable.
Yhi haal pehle govt employees ka tha😂 bs unhi se shaadi krake khush the parents. Abhi ladki smjh bhi jaye to uske ghrwalo ko kaun smjhayega.. how will the society accept them !
Chief
I know people with Master's and PhDs who aren't capable of even taking care of themselves.
Degrees or Education doesn't mean anything if you can't take care of yourself. Let alone your family and Future Wife.
Besides, I'm not calling you unreliable, it's just the reality about What the people out there expect it to be.
And Reality is that There are more Men out there than Women, women get to choose.
Won't you choose a decent Salary?
Will you work at a factory 24/7 without knowing if the salary will be good or not and will it increase or not?
Chief
EY, No one should be asking anyone to Marry them without a solid base to stand on.
If someone can't help the children who will be born out of marriage, why bother at all?
If someone is in Love or whatever, they can do whatever with their own consent.
But going into the "Marriage Market" and crying coz no one is interested is not the way to go.
There will be solid Leftover Men AND Women who simply no one finds worth marrying.
Age, Money, whatever the causes are..
I'd not suggest anyone of any gender to marry someone who won't have a means to provide for a family.
Yes, people grow and all that stuff, but who knows what is going to happen tomorrow?
Nowadays, women are making money as well, I know a few who have also married to men who don't earn as much, but they are happily married.
But the ones who did get married didn't go around saying that the women are Gold Digger :)
It all comes down to mentality, And no one would want someone who makes excuses to get out of situations as there partner.
Focus on the solution.
no one owes you anything.
Get your ass up and work for what you want, nothing is going to fall out of skies.
When I was earning 4.5 then even I was not interested in me😂😂
A man must provide. ~Gus Fring
Ye bhai ne bola
Thos shows how shallow we are as human, i am not blaming the girl or guy, i can totally understand their point of view. But this shows as a human we care more about materialistic stuff even for reproduction process...
Easy to say, but you'll understand why this happened when you'll have to manage wife, children & your family all at once. This isn't just about reproduction, if you think so, then I highly recommend you to not get married for few more years as you require bit more maturity as your lack of realisation about both marriage and money doesn't sounds good. I know it feels bad, but sometimes it's good to accept.
Money speaks, nothing else matters. Paisa nhi hoga to koi nhi puchega
It applies to all the relationships
Now you can do Teleshopping ad too
Abhi ladki nahi hai toh kam pareshan hai bhai tu, ladki aa gayi toh pareshani ka end nahi hoga 😜
No Money, No Honey
Shaadi.com me mereko earning upto 1cr vala section samajh nahi aata
Ladki modest he ki demanding??!!!
1 crore.. Uska baap chor ke gaya ki uski maa
I don't see anything wrong with that
Chief
Because paisa matters.
At 4.5lpa it's difficult to manage yourself, managing family or girlfriend is difficult
5 lpa bolta hu to ldki wale reject kr dete he.. Isi chakkar me shadi nhi kr rha hu.. 29 years.. Now serving NP and switching in upcoming month at 15,then I'll make profile on shadi.. Lets see.. What will be the market rate for me...