Recently, I have started having this constant state of mild tension for apparently no reason . Abhi marriage hui hai. Package theek thaak hai. Haan ghar banana hai uska stress rehta hai. Uske liye i am saving. Dad will retire in 2 years from govt job.
Any suggestions how to live stress free.

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My friend, the only solution to this would be to train your mind to stop overthinking, and solve problems one by one, as and when they come. Of course, I'm not saying to not plan anything for the future, but have a plan in place and forget about it till the time comes.

Ask the experts if you want to do something in life, there's no shame in learning from others' experience. In your case, ask someone who has already built a house, customise the plan according to yourself and trust the process.

This way you are essentially outsourcing your thinking/planning to someone else.

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Don't worry too much about building a house right now. Just keep on saving for it via MFs. Look after 5 years of investing in Mutual Fund.

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