Recently took time off to recover from back surgery and it was miserable emotionally while I was out. I was fighting not being able to work, self esteem tanked, and then I was finally back to work, and I realized that being away had totally transformed my perspective. I don't mind my manager anymore, I realized I'm not suited to my role and need to find another dept, and that I have an insecurity that's been eating me alive that I think I can start to let go of. 10/10 recommend time away.

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It's stuff like this that makes me never want to reach Director level. Would love to know where you land.

This sounds like imposter syndrome. Did you feel anxious about being away from work because you thought you were going to fall behind?

You are suited for the role. If you have made it to the role over other candidates then it means that you are qualified. Don't talk yourself out of a great opportunity.

Sometimes a break is all we need to refresh ourselves.

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