Salam all,
I know a brother who is 45 looking for someone between 35 and 43.

He is well settled male, very normalized not too religious or liberal He don’t smoke, drink or womanizing.
He Prays but can improve, and would like to do hajj. He wants to get married asap.

He has 2 kids but they live with ex.

He is willing to be flexible, and looking for someone who is understanding and like minded.

People with tiny kids (baby/toddler), how are you coping/entertaining your little buggers? Ours is turning 1 very soon and we have a push trike in the mail, but thinking of inside activities too.

I gained weight during my last relationship (probably around 30 lbs, and I’m 5’9”). Before my relationship, I felt like I could get any guy. But I’ve been single for 2 years now and it’s been so hard to date. I’m not sure if maybe I’ve lost confidence, but I legitimately don’t know how to get a guy to be interested. Any pointers?

How was your Thanksgiving? Anyone else stuck avoiding all of the relationship questions?

Well...I've finally made it in my marriage when we are reading each other's minds.

Completely irrelevant still imp for me

Pls advise if someone can

After 8 yrs of relationship he is saying parents are not agree cannot marry....till yesterday he was like I'll never leave you..now he wants to break everything

I can't imager my life without him..what should I do

No one can feel my pain..pls don't make fun of me..

Has anyone actually found love at work? My best friend started at a new company 6 months ago and she just took an offer somewhere else because she and her senior manager fell for each other. After 6 months she knew it was worth leaving her job for! I've been working at the same place for three years and I went on one date with a guy who didn't even work with me he just worked in the building. What am I doing wrong.

Recommendations of infant/toddler daycare near park hill neighborhood? I work in downtown so downtown area can also be considered. Thanks!

Getting about $2200 back from Federal and $1300 back from NY State. Claimed 2 for both last year and having 2nd kid this year. Should I bump to 3 or keep as is?

3 months post breakup… I seemed to be healing well and all the sudden this week I took a huge step back and feel heartbroken all over again. For context I was in a 4 year relationship including 1 year engaged and had to call my wedding off due to his infidelity. How can I shake this? 😔

I guess I'll try my luck out... Isn't the ideal thing to have the passion and romance of teenagers, but with the maturity and experience of adults? Hopefully I could find someone here that has that mindset.

Salam. 23M here - all my life I’ve had my back on our faith - never really prayed but had imaan (I guess). After bouts of depression from girl problems (🙄), issues within immediate family, being disappointed expectations I had for myself, etc. I’ve been working on bettering my situation over the years. Faith is the only area where I think I need more guidance. Having trouble relating to friends or family about this. Anyone else been thru something similar? How have you connected back to Islam?

Everyone likes me because I'm a doormat with no boundaries. I do anything and say anything to make people happy. I will think what you think I should think. Will you be my friend?

Is bfs account Contract get extended or they simply release and we get bach to parent (cts), for another project is complete bgv happening or they just handle from their side?

Asking for a friend - anyone staying in a marriage just for the kid(s)?

It's not like the marriage is terrible or unhealthy, but they would take an out if not for having had the kids.

Anyone else experience this? I'm wondering how common this is.

Breakup etiquette- we broke up and I was supposed to go to his relatives’s wedding in a couple of weeks. I know the couple, not super well, but have hung out and texted individually as well. Should I let them know I won’t be attending and wish them well or don’t reach out to them?

How have you combated your fear of rejection? I fixate on such small things as when my friends, for example, reject plans I have made. This definitely makes me more averse to putting myself out there and makes me ruminate on past perceived failures, which are clearly not good for personal growth

How do you balance your social life with work? I feel like all my non-law friends are out doing shit every night and living it up on the weekends and I just can't. I'm either working or I'm tired from working. How can I set better boundaries about working outside of work, and where do y'all get the motivation to be outside after work 😭

Ladies, did you change your last name after getting married? I’m worried about the impact it will have on my publications.

Taking the bait and asking in this bowl - has anyone heard anything at all about Covington NY? Any thoughts on culture, practice area strengths, office, etc would be appreciated.

Anyone know what’s the salary of a Director PwC india ?

Does anyone here work for Vail or Alterra? If so, how is it?

Hello Fishes, Can anyone give me referral in Deutsche Bank. I have one year of experience in trade reconciliations and trade settlement using swift and ACH payment. Looking for analyst role in same job domain.

Anyone have feedback on in house attorney positions with Mercury Insurance?

Hi,

I got my petition approved for H-1B.
Can someone please guide what are the next steps?
In glomo I can see my assignment is completed.
My manager has no clue on what are the next steps and asked me to check with glomo team, what is the approach to reach out to glomo team?

Ease advise.

Hi folks,

If a person resigns on April month when yearly reviews are going to happen and bonus are being sent out.
So, can he get the performance bonus because he served the last whole year with dedication?

It would be helpful if managers can answer this because they are the people who approves or decline this request.

Hi All,
Looking to automate a manual process for the client and thinking of creating macros for with VBA. Has anyone done anything similar?

In the process of learning but wanted to reach out for any tips, tricks and advice anyone may have.

Thanks I’m advance.

When is your office re opening… A few details

ZS: January with an option to resume from April
EY: No communication but will require to travel to client location if permitted
DB: No communication yet but will follow hybrid model of 3days WFH
NT, CS: No communication yet
Barclays: Few staff have been asked to come to office as a pilot project into hybrid model.

What are your preferences?

I posted this somewhere else before I remembered that I am in this bowl :) so, I changed jobs 6-7 months ago and I am realizing it is not a good fit. Leadership seem to not want to hear the truth so people tell them what they want to hear and if you don’t middle management gets pissed at you. I am seriously thinking about looking somewhere else. My question is how do you answer the “why are you looking to leave” question without bad mouthing your current company?

Joined in Oct for SAP functional. Now one manager who interviewed me reached out that there is a training material developer project which will start on 20 nov for Oracle timeline is 2 months only and SAP projects are in pipeline there was one coming but no guarantee if its final and if it has to come it will be in this month because in dec new projects do not onboard. I have worked on oracle in the past but now am fully into SAP. Should I take this project or wait until Jan for SAP project?

3.5 years out of school, 2400 billable hours last year in TRS and just got promoted. what kind of year end compensation should I be expecting? Bonus and new salary

A&M fishes ! Waiting for an offer from PEPI MAS today. What’s a realistic TC for a manager on average ? I know it’s very much dependent on utilization but I’m looking for average numbers that someone you have seen during your time at the firm. Lowest and highest in addition to average are appreciated as well 😊

Can I get any referal for data engineer position??

Any international senior creatives who are on O1 visa ? Need some assistance please.

Ive been using botox fairly consistently for 10 yrs and m happy with the results. However, for financial reasons Im thinking of taking a break for 12 months to save the extra money.

Will stopping botox for 12 moths undo all the progress I've made? (I am afraid of rapidly aging like the Nazi from Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade - nightmare fule).

Also, any adfordable akincare products I should use during the 12 months?

Anyone succumb to the ads and try Il Makiage make up? Foundation/concealer. Their brilliant ads make me curious, but not sure why not seeing it at Sephora is getting in my way. (while I’m at, how about that Thrive mascara that is everywhere)?

Hey there, just got a mail from a recruiter at Bain to discuss a potential specialist consultant opportunity. Any tips on what the interview process might be like , indicative comp and WLB? I have 7 years experience in the releavnt field (Acc & Big 4) so will be joining laterally.
TIA

I have 7 years of experience in Finance.(more friendlyin AR). Looking for a job change can any one please refer me. Due to low pay I am looking for a change

28F here, Sunni, Desi, located in the Midwest! Looking for someone practicing but also with a balance of Deen/dunya. Also ideally looking for someone taller than 5'8

32M
In Sydney, Australia
Nationality: Australian and Pakistani
Religion: Sunni
Profession: Strategy Manager
Hobbies: Hiking, Rock climbing, Travelling, Reading Fantasy fiction, Politics and Self-improvement

Looking for someone from 25-31. Don't care about ethnicity. Practising Muslim. HMU

27F, Midwest, looking for someone raised in the states/Canada ideally, practicing Sunni, don't drink/smoke, non-hijabi. Lemme know if you're interested or know someone that might be!

28F, Pakistani, willing to relocate within the US. I don’t wear hijab, don’t drink or smoke, do eat halal. Like baking, running, and am kind of a prankster. US born and raised.

27M Syed Sunni Indian. Born in 🇦🇺 , 🇺🇸 for ~20 yrs - Boston based (dual citizen) . Can cook and clean, athletic (when I want to be). Sometimes smart but mostly dumb. Prays / fasts but also likes Drake

27 F, Indian, Sunni Muslim, In USA from last 6 years. Works at Deloitte.

Open minded, eat halal, non-smoker, non- hijabi. Love to travel. Pray, Fast and give Zakah on regularly.

Willing to relocate anywhere in USA.

Example post:

24F,📍Carmel IN, willing to relocate within US only, Sunni

Wear a niqab/don't eat halal/don't drink/do shisha/have tattoo etc

Ramadan Mubarak Everyone!

26 F, 🇮🇳, Moderate Sunni, open minded, eat halal, non-smoker, non- hijabi. Love to travel, sometimes a bookworm, nerdy. 😅

This feels weird but why not give it a shot🤷🏻‍♀️
29F, I have an MD and an MBA. Pakistani, Based in Toronto. Ideally someone Toronto based would be great.
Decently religious, prayer and charity are a big part of my life. Got a good balance of deen and dunya. Looking for someone who’s open minded, educated and emotionally mature. I’m fairly tall, so must be over 6 ft.

28F ..metro detroit. African. Hijabi/turban. Open to any and all races. Dont drink or smoke. Mostly eats halal. Prays. Opn minded and adventurous.

Looking to settle down! iA

28 F, Boston based Egyptian American (born and raised in the U.S. non-Hijabi, non-smoker. Plays guitar and works in tech. Easygoing and open minded. Looking for the same.

(F27) Realizing I might be a rare pokemon species ... any chance of there being Europe-based, shia (practising) candidates here?

27M, Pakistani, 5’11, Pakistani, Philly

Funny [looking] guy looking for girl for marriage

Must be kind, soft hearted, warm, empathetic, intuitive, creative, passionate, wholesome, have ‘practical life experience’

Random keywords: Muslim, Sunni, plant dad, socks and sandals, Pakistani food > , laying in parks, overanalyzing movies and music, collecting credit card rewards points, Spotify playlists, long drives

Work: Supply Chain Consultant

25 F in NYC. I was born in the US and raised between US and Middle East. Looking to meet people :)

Salaam. 26 M. Houston. My hobbies are traveling, watching sports, and hanging out with friends. Hope to get married this year, ان شاء الله.

24 F, Arab living in Ohio. Hijabi, don’t drink, don’t smoke. Interested in Arab men. Willing to relocate in the US or to the gulf countries.