Scheduled to hook up with a guy, we swapped numbers but now he’s texting me everyday, asking stuff like what I do; also he sends me his daily chores all the time. We haven’t met yet.. what does it mean?

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If you don’t like it, why don’t you just set expectations with the guy? Saves your time and his. No point in guessing someone’s intentions when you could ask him directly and put this to bed (perhaps literally)

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Maybe chores is his kink. Ask him to clean your house

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What do you mean by “he sends you his daily chores list”? 😆. This seems a bit clingy don’t you think? What do you think it means?

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It is a good sign depending on what you are looking for. He's into you and is interested in your likes/dislikes and shares stuff about himself. It sounds like you're less emotionally invested or interested in him, and view him as a scheduled hook up rather than a person of interest.

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Who schedules hookups?

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At first I felt intrigue towards this post, but the longer I look at it, the weirder I’m finding it. Yeah, to your credit, who schedules hookups? Don’t these just normally happen when you get a feeling for it?

Could just be how they are with everyone, might just be his way of vetting you before your meeting, they may just really need someone to talk too. But best thing for you to do is ask them directly, mention boundaries if needed

I never experienced this. A chill dude one time asked me if I could bust his cheeks. Took the fellow out to eat for wine and gnocchi then put in work. Homie had some glutes. Maybe he’s giving you hints.

We’re missing some context here, OP. Are you both into kinks?

First off, I think you need to define what “chores” are, OP, in this individual’s mind.

He’s gonna keep you tied up in his basement if you meet him. 🚩

Yeah. It has never happened to me, but I can’t imagine being handcuffed to a radiator would be an ideal way to spend an evening.

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