So frustrated 😔 my dating life is non-existence in Chicago... should I move? Been here for 5 years and zero date. I’m a POC, not white.

Someone told me men who move later from SF to NY are always guys who are looking for a messing around phase in dating.
Sounded like a big generalization to be but also finding it not to be totally off. Thoughts?

Thoughts on casual relationships? How to initiate? Be upfront in the dating app bios or go with the flow.

List of info people are interested in:
Age, sex, location, ethnicity, religion, height, insta handle (if shameless plug), one fun fact about yourself, what you’re looking for

I gained weight during my last relationship (probably around 30 lbs, and I’m 5’9”). Before my relationship, I felt like I could get any guy. But I’ve been single for 2 years now and it’s been so hard to date. I’m not sure if maybe I’ve lost confidence, but I legitimately don’t know how to get a guy to be interested. Any pointers?

Single 24 year old here. Recently joined Hinge. I am barely getting any activity. I'm a former OKCupid user and I always got something there. Do people not use Hinge or is there something wrong with me? I'm a fit average height guy and I am not ugly. Looking for LTR especially now in the time of Corona. Didn't bother with human interaction before tbh but this loneliness is creeping up. 😔

Hey- anyone been in the position where their seeing someone, but you’re not dating ? I’m seeing someone and he went on vacation without me and I’m sure he met some girls - he even admitted it but said

It’s official that after 7 years I am now single in my late 30s…. Moments of excitement and moments sadness come and go. 🥂

On the topic of intimacy with partners… I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years and the past year his libido has dropped to zero. Mostly due to work stress (he says). Whenever I try to initiate, he always shuts me down and says he’s not in the mood. I even touch him and he gets hard but stops me as soon as I try to unzip him. We went from once a week to maybe once a quarter.

I’ve talked to him about it and he says I should take care of myself. So frustrated. 😭😭

How many dates do you give someone if you don’t feel a “spark” in the first 1-2 dates but genuinely enjoy their company (I.e. talking and learning about them etc)?

Which city would you recommend for single men in late 20s trying to find good opportunities in career & dating? Leaning more towards to NYC but not planning to live in Manhattan due to the high rent so I am not sure that would be okay. Also don't want to drive that much.

Thoughts/reviews on Indian Matchmaking?

Are text message breakups acceptable? Better than complete ghosting right

I feel like when I’m busy with work, I don’t even want to reply to attractive guys. Is this normal?

Would you date an ex army/marine who has actually been through wars (and killed people) and told you that they can hear ringing noises?

Just curious, do people from this bowl still do sexting?

Any single female fish is this bowl enjoy dating men In their late 30s

My partner refuses to flatulate during waking hours around me. I feel this lack of intimacy is cause for alarm. I calmly mentioned my concerns and she doesn't feel comfortable speaking about the subject. Any suggestions?

Seriously don't know how to get a boyfriend as an IB analyst, most people who are in a relationship started dating since college. Really don't want to be single when I'm 30•••

I'm 10+ years experienced SAP ABAP consultant.

What should be my Designation in
1.TCS,
2.INFOSYS,
3.HCL,
4.ACCENTURE,
5.DELLOITE

So my team currently uses onenote to house all of our SOPs and reference guides, but it’s becoming a monstrosity and it’s really hard to search and navigate. What programs do you use to provide your team with resources? Or is there some trick to onenote organization that we are missing maybe?

How to switch from Accenture technology to Accenture strategy?

Hello! I'm currently a coordinator for a large hospital. Background in workflows, project management and clinical pharmacy. Looking to transition to a healthcare analyst, junior project manager position. Currently finishing up the Google/Coursera Data Analytics course. I haven't had any luck with my current job search. Any suggestions? Companies? Titles to look for?

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Moving to San Diego in the spring from the central coast. Any recs on places to live (late 30’s with a kid)? Want to be close to restaurants and things to do, but a little too old and tired for gas lamp!

What three movies would you pick if asked to recommend the best class of cinema in India?
My list
1 Paan Singh Tomar
2 Lunchbox
3 Gangs of Wasseypur

Hi everyone! I come from Big law and have an interview at a federal court (dream job) and will be meeting two federal judges. Any tips for a successful interview? I’ve worked previously at a lower court. Any qualities / skills I should put forward? Many thanks

Anyone know US car insurance companies that recognize Canadian driving history/experience?

Can I live comfortably in Dubai on 25k a month? With wife and kid too?

What makes a great agency environment (aka, culture)? Having worked in several, it almost sounds like an oxymoron. But if YOU were in charge, what would you do to provide a great employee environment?

Is anyone else experiencing a new wave of covid anxiety due to the stress of figuring out the holidays? Got in an argument with a family member about safety guidelines and testing needing to happen and I’ve been feeling paralyzed by anxiety all day.

Do you see substantial gaps between internal auditing outcomes on one side, and expectations of stakeholders on another side?

Any guys out there shave or trim their leg hair? Ladies - thoughts?

Folks that have worked in Big Law in other areas of the country, what do you feel is different about being in Texas? I've been offered a role in NYC but may decline because I'm just happier here, culturally.

Hey There,
Currently working as Electrical engineer in medical device company. Been applying to few battery and electrical engineering jobs at amazon in seattle and california locations. If anyone could provide referral for the job, that would be very helpful.

Hi fishes,

I have an offer with Fujitsu as Application developer in Application development and management services

Tech: .net, SQL
Yoe: 3

How is Career growth and job security in Fujitsu?
I was confirmed with Developer role at the time of interview. Will i surely get development role or they will put in any role?

How’s everyone doing? The lack of sex really put me into a depressed state.

Any suggestions for a good gay bar that is more wine/cocktail centric (vs sidetrack or roscoes)?

Shall we organize a gathering next week?

Tops? Message me, I’m free this weekend lawlz

Time to brunch.... ! Chicago is finally reopening

Chicago is opening up - Let'a plan for our first summer outing. Whose interested? Suggestion? Go....!

How's the scene in chicago these days?

Two weeks off and was hoping to say hi to some of you , individually or in a socially distanced small group setting , if anyone is around. Please let me know:)

What’s everyone doing nowadays?

Hi queers, queens and everything in between 💕

Just found out about this too! How are y’all doing ? Would love to connect.

We have a bowl leader? Who pins post?!? Show yourself!

What’s the best way to meet other DL gay dudes who are not into the boystown scene?

Looking for a watermelon pit ticket for Harry Styles the 24th the united center. Anyone have one to sale or a reputable hook up? looking to surprise my daughter for her birthday!! Help a momma out please!

Hello 👋 just found out about this community today. Would love to meet some folks in the city!

So anyone single 🧐

Any single, normal guys looking to chat and take it from there? Slide into those dms if yes. COVID clearly getting to me 🤦🏼‍♂️

Who's our new joiner?