Someone I matched with, is pushing me to meet the next day. I don’t like to meet super soon unless we know each other at least for a week and now she is mad. How do you deal with pushy people?

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Maybe she really likes you & wants to meet you? She’s worried that you are a good catch & might decline in a week? Maybe you’re single as you constantly over analyze women’s behavior, set rules only you follow, and expect others to dance to your tune? Why not go with the flow, meet for an hour outdoors, go for a walk in the park & see if you like her? Or stay single and childless for the rest of your life. It really is your choice.

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Accountant* rest * oops.

Say no and move on

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Acc1 Quite possible and a good perspective. But why not convey the same respectfully. One can be nice and still express their wishes, specially when you feel the urge to meet someone. Why expect a guy to be nice and then throw all the judgments in a rude way. You want respect, earn it. Period.

What’s wrong in meeting next day? You can meet as long as you are not setting up wrong expectations..

Lol no time wasted but thanks for your advice. It was rather quick.

Omg why do conversations on desi bowl get so weird? OP get down from your high horse, if you don't want to meet don't meet. Why are you asking here if you have already made a decision and closed your mind to possibilities.

I am not saying you are wrong in not wanting to meet but the attitude you showed with that Afganistan comment was weird. I feel the girl isn't wrong in asking to meet the next day nor are you if you don't want to. Figure out if you like her enough, if not don't meet! No need to be contentious with people expressing their opinion since you literally asked for it by posting.

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