Sometimes I wake up and am surprised I’m on people’s close friends story. They aren’t on my list but alright, I’ll take it. Guess we’re close than I expected?

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I think people use this feature to exclude people who they don’t want to see their story. For example, they will have everyone as a close friend except their coworkers, or family, or ex fling, etc

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Thanks Brandon 🥲

Do people filter on close friends only?

Yes - I only keep a close filter of ~30-ish people out of like 800+ followers. When it says close friends - I really use it for close friends only

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