Thoughts/experience leaving the law to become a therapist or psychologist?

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You'd have a large clientele base if you focused on providing therapy to lawyers recovering from bad experiences in law firms, legal organizations, etc.

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My colleague is doing it. She’s gone part time while in grad school and couldn’t be more excited about her future.

I also read an article once about a full therapy practice of ex-lawyers. They focus on counseling unhappy lawyers. Sounds like a cash cow. lolsob

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Follow your heart! Also be sure to take some time to get rid of the burnout from being an attorney. Being a psychologist comes with its own set of burnout risks. Rest up and pursue what your heart is telling you to do!

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No personal experience leaving law as of yet, but currently pursuing school to be a therapist/psychologist (not far enough along to have drilled down specifics aside from the areas I’d like to specialize in, substance abuse and work with survivors of sexual abuse).

It’s felt scary knowing that I’ll be leaving the career I’ve had since I was 19, I am currently 25. My own therapist has helped shift that perspective from fear of leaving what I know, to excitement for a new career doing something I am extremely passionate about.

It’s never too late in life to shift gears. It’s never too late to pursue a new career. (I also know someone who didn’t go to law school till they were in their 50s!)

I will also add that I know an attorney who is a licensed counselor, and does that work on the side of his regular legal practice (he is near retirement age, and his practice is quite small, primarily one client). He seems to find that very rewarding. I work in big law so the balance of the two would be impossible with my hours and current work. I’m also not an attorney, so I’m sure there’s more weighing on your decision with the time you’ve committed to become barred.

Hope you find clarity on what you choose to pursue!

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Thank you for sharing this! I'm a big law associate so I totally relate to the impossibility of balancing both. I really appreciate you sharing and I'm excited about your future!

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I work with a forensic psychologist who is a recovering attorney and watching her makes me think about this flip all the time.

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That's so interesting!

I’ve had two people on my podcast in the last few months to talk about leaving law to become therapists—Lauren Tetenbaum and Kara Hardin. Just search Former Lawyer Podcast wherever you listen to podcasts and look for their names in the ep title.

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Thanks Sarah!

My therapist said all her clients are lawyers. Ain’t we a fun bunch?

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Do it! In family law you can have a great practice as a parenting coach

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I am currently working part time at my boutique firm and am pursuing an LMFT (Masters in clinical psychology) through an online program. I couldn’t be happier with my decision, even though it’s quite a juggling act. I can already see how different the worlds are and how much more of a fit psychology is for me than the law. I have a lot of trauma to work through after almost a decade in biglaw, and doing something I am passionate about has started chipping away at some of them. I also took a coaching course last summer, though I opted not to take the certification and instead get my masters. I hope I can help other attorneys once I get my license. Happy to chat privately and/or answer any questions about the path.

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What online program are you taking, if you don’t mind answering? Feel free to DM if you’d rather.

Would you guys trust a life coach in the same way as a therapist?

Therapists and life coaches have very different credentials, experiences, and skills. Life coaches do not treat mental illness, while licensed therapists do. I have been in therapy for various mental health issues throughout my life. There are various approaches to therapy and many of them deal with the past, present, and future and not just the past, such as psychotherapy.

I currently have both a therapist and a life coach and I'm integrating the work I'm doing with each of them. A good therapist and a good life coach will ask what goals we want to set and some of the goals, strategies, and paths can overlap. For me, they definitely do. For example, both my therapist and life coach strongly recommend daily meditation/mindfulness. This is one of the best ways to increase calm and focus and actually change the neural pathways of the brain to transform behavior over time.

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I’ve been considering this move as well and would love to hear more from people who’ve made the switch. What specific degree do you recommend?

I have no personal experience but I was going to leave the law and got my mba at night. I have decided to stay in the law but changed my goal to be small law firm owner and own other small businesses. I have talked with therapist who changed careers and can tell you it has many of the same problems lawyers have. 1) your clients are mentally ill. Are you ready to try to talk rationally to someone who is bipolar? What about someone who wealthy but is getting divorced? Family law attorneys often take the role off therapist too. 2) can you get a client base? 3) will you specialize ( I know a therapist who makes a good living taking on ocd clients b/c he is best in town and only does ocd.) just a few thoughts.

I went to an event many years ago discussing options outside of law and one person had become a licensed therapist and mentioned with the clinical credentials he could charge rates.

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