Today my lead aka friend gave me a earful because I wasn't able to cope up with the pressure. He knows this year have been really tough but he didn't hesitate to say things like U like going to therapy and u will remain mentally unstable all your life.

I anyway am moving to a different project and told him I was sorry and tried hard and he can skip supporting my promotion but he said whatever he wanted to.

Don't feel good. I just wanted to feel better because. Cntd in cmnts

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I am going through a lot, divorce, loneliness and honestly anxious, stressed and feel like crying all the time and people think my life is a joke they can laugh at me because I am single and mental health is nothing.
Tried taking offs but that didn't help either, just asking for a little understanding but Idk what to do.
I am not saying he is wrong but I am honestly not able to cope up with the pressure and therapy is there but it takes times

Divorce?? What is your age brother and when did you get married?

Can feel you bro..Try changing location, go for some trips, do charity beside work

Keep yourself occupied whatever you like, just ignore what ever others are saying, they are not in your shoes, don't give up, time will heal everything trust me.

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God bless you..

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