Was out this week on vacation and just thought I'd peek at my inbox today to see what I'd be facing on Monday. Big mistake. Should not have looked! It's been awhile since I took an entire week off and so I didn't anticipate the email volume. Previous me would start cranking on those this weekend but you know what? It can wait until Monday. But I want to know - how many of you here are previous me?

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I still struggle with that off switch. It’s too easy to pop on and do a few quick messages, but then a few hours go by, and I’m kicking myself. It’s not like there is an end to work, more just keeps coming regardless of how much I do on the weekend.

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Spot on way to describe it! People looking around like just stop, but you are doing everything in your power to do just that!

I used to be like the previous you, would literally respond to those mails because unread work emails make me feel like I am not doing my job well, but I am also learning to enjoy my breaks without feeling guilty.

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Glad we're both growing and setting boundaries then!

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