Well… I am back in the dating pool, after three years living together/ buying a ring and planning a future, due to the fact that my partner just couldn’t get over feeling inadequate next to me. How do people in their 30s meet nowadays? Any advice for finding someone who isn’t intimidated by your success would be highly appreciated… or if anyone has a single brother 🤣🤣

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We were set up. By the time we met in our mid-30s we already knew the non-negotiables and vetted each other quickly. I didn’t tell my husband how much I made until after we were engaged, though he probably had an idea based on my title. I think it’s important to realize money comes and goes, jobs are at will, careers are a jungle gym not a ladder. People are intimidated by success if that’s how they measure their self worth.

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