What are women looking for these days in a man to date?

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Sense of humor, empathy, stable career, etc

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Honesty

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A man who actually wants to go out and do stuff together, get to know each other. Kind, funny, honest, good communicator.

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Sure - my attitude is start the date off with sex so both of you can relax and have fun at dinner and then home for more sex

Money

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Someone to take the lead. Take charge. Put in the effort. Show her you’re serious about getting to know her. I just cut a guy after 3 dates because he delayed in responding to texts, kept me “on the hook” this week in setting a date, and said some stuff during our 3rd date that I didn’t like. Shame. He was cute and a professional, but he wanted only to casually date, and shared that the texting and dates issue had come up before with (2) different women (so there’s a pattern).

It’s always when you’re not looking for it. That’s a pretty cringe question to ask, considering every single man and woman are looking for something completely different in their life partner/soulmate.
Essentially, everyone is looking for their ‘perfect match’. And everyone is different. The only things you really need to worry about is honesty, loyalty and trust. Your life partner should also be your best friend, that you can tell anything to, trust with your life, share everything with and be willing and wanting, to do the same.
Good luck, and I hope you find true love.

Respect, first & foremost. You don’t have a relationship without that.

Desire to learn about issues/topics that impact women.

Smart with their money. Don’t need to make tons, but educate yourself well on personal finance and be strategic with what you have.

Interest in personal growth, improving yourself and relationships, your communication, how you deal with stress, etc.

Sex, I have money. But for younger women I’m sure they want more as they establish their vision of their life.

emotional intelligence, self-awareness/accountability

Alot of things be yourself and if they don't like it that means there not right for you and you'd be happier alone then with them

Someone who is honest, wants to spend time together (reasonsble amount), gives a damn about how what he says and does affects me, considerate, polite, motivated, wouldn't hurt a fly but don't take any shit either, realizes things and picks up on things that are subtle yet important, loves tacos, good looking, a good person with a great work ethic

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