What are your thoughts on splitting shared expenses proportionate to income when you are living together with your SO? What about if both make over $175k but there is still a significant % delta (30%+)?

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def do a proportional split and adjust the % as needed

Neither of you should be living above your means. Do it down the middle.

There are definitely arguments for both sides. Would be interesting to see if people came to a consensus

If you aren't married, then I'd suggest that you split fixed expenses down the middle, and the higher earner pays the variable housing expenses (electric, gas, even internet). Unless your rent is super high or super low, it should shake out ok.

Alternative is to split according to income, but that can be annoying.

I split rent with my fiancee before we got married; we paid $1,560, and the math worked out to $900 for me and $660 for her, with utilities split down the middle

We aren’t married but probably getting engaged soon. We bought a condo together which of course we split 50/50 on. I guess are main shared expenses are groceries/eating out/travel.

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