What hobby is a red flag in a potential partner? For me, I've learned the hard way to avoid gamers.

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Lack of hobbies - too much tv, lazy habits

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I agree on the too much tv and laziness

Gambling, drinking, drugging

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Boxing

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It’s controlled violence in a gym. Unless there is major CTE involved, most who practice boxing or martial arts avoid violence outside of the gym.

What’s wrong with gamers?

The real red flag is raving/drinking/partying

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Not having any hobbies is a red flag in itself. That said I avoid women who are in their mid to late 30s and still drinking/partying hard every week. Generally I’ll avoid anyone super into camping as it’s not really my thing.

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Anything done to an extreme and/or to dissociate. When it veers from hobby to obsession.

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