What's considered cocktail attire out here? I was invited to a clients holiday party and they're very casual (t-shirt and shorts in the summer) but dress code says cocktail attire

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Based on the info you gave, I’d go with the items NBC mentioned, but you can also show more personality (colors, patterns, cut) than those same pieces would be for business casual.

in LA almost anything goes. for some cocktail attire means they dress as if they are on the red carpet at the Oscars, for others jeans and a nice top will suffice (maybe with heels for women and a jacket for men).

my reco here is that as you may be going from day to evening for events in LA is to be prepared to change your shoes, step up your accessories and look a bit but still be you.

My spouse just ran into this for a business lunch last week at the Beverly Hills Hilton - the organizers said “business or cocktail attire” apparently not realizing that for women those are very different things.

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