What’s your parenting style and how’d you find it?

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Is imparting generational trauma considered a parenting style?

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Don’t make the same mistakes my parents made. Make new different and original ones.

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Lead with softness, kindness and love

But don’t be afraid to be stern and enforce discipline when needed

Not whatever my partner or myself grew up with. Doing it our way.

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