While at work, do you ever feel proud of yourself enough to vocalize whatever you achieved to your peers? Or do you shy away from acknowledging your accomplishments and wait to celebrate with friends / family outside of the office?

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I usually just shy away. I don't like to show off. I know what I did and do. No need to gloat.

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I have one work buddy that I share accomplishments with- that is as far as it goes.

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I might bring up an accomplishment with one of my colleagues that I'm close with, but I don't make a big show of it, no. I prefer my work to speak for itself.

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Same I tend to keep the news to myself & my wife

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I shy away, and it's something I'm really working on - I think it's why I've been passed over for promotions etc because I'm just not vocal about what I'm up to

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I tend to keep that kind of news for friends and family but I realize that if you don’t promote what you done it’s easy for other to forget that especially when consider promotions & bonuses.

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