Why is it so hard to take vacation days when you work in government?
I’m getting married next week and taking two weeks off — and I still feel guilty about it.
The work piles up, and it feels like you need a whole strategy just to rest.
Anyone else struggle with this?

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I don't struggle with feeling guilty. I've earned that time off and will never feel badly for using it. The work piling up is definitely a problem, though. I do my best to work and prep as far ahead as possible before I go OOO, but you can only do so much. The first week back is always going to be a manic game of catchup.

That's a good way of looking at it. What's the longest you've been gone on vacation? I usually do 1 week at a time so 2 Weeks feels very overwhelming.

Don't feel guilty about it. This is a special time in your life and you deserve to celebrate it. I know the work piles up and it feels hard to actually relax but you have to turn your work brain off and live a little.

Now that I've left the office I feel a peace but the few days leading up to vacation were extremely stressful! Looking forward to celebrating 🎉🎁

Nobody has ever laid on their deathbed and said, "I wish I had *worked* more."

Valid 💯

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