Why no one respects me even my family, they take outsiders opinion and ignore mine, although I am doing great in life. I do feel frustrated about this at times.

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I have always been introvert person, did school and graduation from home town, was bullied in school and could never develop high self confidence

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If you are an introvert and don”t argue much..it is bound to happen.

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Move out

I understand.. prove your capability by doing something extraordinary.

Dont involve any dicision be it wrong or right. When they stuck or talk to you regarding this just mention that as they dont care about your opinion you will not give any input let the oursider decide.

Don’t worry bro. It happens, when parents see you as unmature person. Show them yours capabilities, ask them for a trip. Make yourself frank and comfortable with them and than everything will be on track.

Enjoy your life, find your partner and share your inner side, get married , have kids, travel world, there are so much to do in life rather giving suggestions to your parents, good luck

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