Women in Finance

How does everyone find budgeting the best? What things to people prioritise to sacrifice? I’m not on the best salary but there are others the same as me that seem to do so much more than me and I just… more

Feeling stuck. Severely undervalued.

I’m a software engineer at a finance company. After my Masters I’ve 6.5yoe. my salary has not increased much at all. My total comp is the new grads pay.

Im stuck in this job due to immigrat… more

Do you usually set a savings goal for the year? And how strict are you with it? I went into this year with a pretty big goal in mind, but after a few unexpected expenses popped up, I’ve had to scale i… more

I'm currently in AML and noticing more and more positions are wanting qualifications in SQL and/or Python. It's truly a bummer to be overlooked and leaves me wondering how easy is it for someo… more

Sometimes, all it takes to turn around a tough workday for me is a bit of genuine, positive feedback. It really goes a long way. I’ve noticed that some people rarely give any feedback at all, and it makes me wonder why. As someone leading a small team, I try t… more

We have recently employed 2 new members of staff and its got me thinking, why do so many places not have a training plan set in stone before taking on new people!? These poor guys are sat twiddling th… more

Does anyone ever feel like men have a head start with networking because of things like Golf etc? I know women can also play golf, but I feel like there are so many similar things like this which are … more

I’ve taken the first job that came about to remove myself from a very toxic manager and senior manager - to the point it was impacting my health. The new job doesn’t align to my strategic goals nor i… more

When you travel, who usually handles the planning? Do you take the lead, or does your partner (or even your kids or assistant) step in? I feel like I’m always the one planning everything for the famil… more

Those who left IB (small/mid cap) for something different than a PE, where did you go? Currently trying to analyse possible moves

Mid-week wonders!

What positive thing happened this week?

When a Career Move Becomes a Setback
I left a senior role to pivot into a new field — instead, I landed in a toxic environment with incompetent, bullying managers. My promotion, overdue by 8 years, did… more

How often do you work out each week? I’ve been hitting it about 3-4 times lately, and honestly, it’s been such a lifesaver for dealing with work stress. There’s something about getting moving that jus… more

Did you choose the job you’re in or did you fall into it? I definitely didn’t plan it this way but glad it happened!

What’s the most expensive thing you’ve ever splurged on just for yourself? Gifts for partners or kids don’t count! Honestly, I can’t even remember the last time I treated myself to something truly spe… more

Does everyone show their full / true personality at work? I have an almost toned down version of my personality as I feel like I’m a bit chaotic 🤣 Is this a normal thing to do to not be 100% yourself… more

Asking for a promotion, being told to hit these goals. Hitting them and then not getting the promotion? I know the only real answer is to leave but the job is so convenient for my personal life / work… more

Anyone else feel like the 4th of July crept up out of nowhere this year? I’ve been so wrapped up in work and everyday stuff that I almost forgot it’s this week, but now I’m suddenly craving BBQ, firew… more

I would really like some advice if possible please.
The company that I work for do employee of the month and post it on the socials, which is great as we can all share on our LinkedIn etc. However, eve… more

Anyone else feeling a bit conflicted about the Big Beautiful Bill? On one hand, I might actually benefit from some of the new tax breaks. But I’m also aware that those gains come at a cost, especially… more

What newsletters have you signed up for that you actually read and worth your time?

Bonus points if you can tell me an app that I can read the newsletter instead of having it sent to my email.

Has anyone else noticed how your paycheck can grow, but somehow your savings don’t? Suddenly you’re upgrading your house, the car, the kids’ activities, and it all just adds up. It’s like lifestyle cr… more

Folks who stepped into a new people management role either internally or accepted a position at a new company - how quickly were you assigned a set of direct reports? Day 1? Day 180?

Do people tend to marry within their industry? I see the appeal: shared schedules, mutual understanding; but I also wonder if it can get too one-note. My partner’s in a totally different field, and so… more

Moms… how do you cope seeing others that haven’t been on maternity leave and had kids etc progressing beyond you? I really feel like I’m being left behind because I’ve had kids. Is that unreasonable?

I am constantly feeling like I need to prove my worth every day. I don't know if this is a me problem, or if it has been created because of previous bad work experiences, but I have no idea how to get o… more

Let’s talk benefits. What is one perk that your company has that you really like?

Hi everyone. I recently started a new job and I’ve been getting great feedback. I knew that it would be a grind, but it’s quickly become so much more than that and surpassing the job description by fa… more

I’m getting married soon and have been thinking about whether we should sign a prenup. It’s not the most romantic topic, but I’ve come to see it as a way to protect both of us if life ever takes an un… more

Maybe an unpopular opinion, but does anyone keep it to themselves a bit if you are having a quiet period? I feel a bit guilty even admitting it, but its so chaotic 24/7, that if I do ever have a down … more

I have a problem at my work - I feel like my analyst has switched their behaviour and is becoming hostile to me. We are currently managing our own projects where I don’t lead them, but any attempt at … more

What are your to go meals for lunch?

How does everyone feel about alcohol at work events? Is it a bit risky or is it a good way to ease anxiety??

Can anyone give me some advice on how best to prepare for interviews? I am comfortable being myself but when being asked about strengths and weaknesses I just get all anxious

How much does your job align with what you studied in school? I’m realizing a lot of people I admire took pretty winding paths, and it’s making me question how locked in I really am. Would love to hea… more

How do you know if it’s time to switch jobs or just push through a rough season? I’ve been feeling a little stuck lately but can’t tell if it’s just normal growing pains or a sign that I need a bigger… more

What types of things shall I include in a cover letter? I’m quite new to this so any advice would be appreciated

How do you ask for more responsibility at work without sounding like you’re unhappy or ungrateful?

I feel like I still have some growth to achieve in my career, but I’m not sure how to bring it up in a… more

Any reconnections for navigating infertility while maintaining your full time position? There are several days where I am so sad and low that doing my job is difficult and my performance definitely su… more

How many vacation days do you usually take in a year? I try to take time off when I can, but honestly, catching up afterward can feel like it cancels out the whole break. Honestly sometimes it feels l… more