A question to my unmarried friends
What is stopping you from falling in love with a girl and marrying out of own choice
You are independent,earn well so what is the roadblock?

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Getting a salary and being independent is no substitute for experience. Evident by string of short term relationships I've had. Even the longer ones were frought with fights and breakups and makeups. It's clear even with a fat package at age of 28 I still don't know what's right and what's wrong when it comes to relationships. I'd rather have a calm marriage than a hot steamy short affair. The latter don't last very long.

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This is an interesting question. Hmm. I think I am still not ready to settle down and build a family. I still have life goals as a single person.

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I had a very difficult breakup two years ago. I think I'm mostly past it, but I didn't want to start dating again until I was sure I wasn't going to take out my frustrations from my last relationship on someone new. Women deserve the best treatment and I wanted to be able to provide that. Maybe now I'm ready.

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