Anyone ever leave a company that was seen as prestigious and then notice family treat you differently? I left a big company for a little one since my role was about to get cut, now my family act very differently to me. Outwardly mocking and suddenly don’t invite me to things. I know they thought I made a lot of money because they knew the place I worked (I didn’t) now I feel like I lost the little respect they gave me my entire life and it really bothers me.

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That reflects poorly on them and not you.

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I know that in the end. It’s just upsetting to get mocked by the people you have the most contact with.

I relate so much to this.

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Sorry to hear that! That’s not right.

Family and friends have always been supportive even when I have been unemployed.

If people mock you, don’t accept the disrespect.

Choose to spend your time with people who support you, and to whom you have nothing to prove.

Building a social circle takes time. I moved to a new city and had to start from scratch. I attended meetup events that were hit or miss, but eventually met some cool people.

Other things that have helped is treating depression, and working on self-confidence.

I recommend the books and TikTok of Robert Greene. Good way to learn more about different personalities.

Hey, you know your self worth. Its their loss not yours for sure. Be strong and be you selfie. By them treating you this way sounds like they're jealous of you or did you spend money on them and now you don't or can't at this point .
It's your life to live. As long as you are happy that's all that matters. They dont pay your bilks do they. They dont feel when your hurting or feeling like you do now. So treat them the way they like to trest you. Peopke dont like rejection, silence ir to be ignored but tough luvk. They shoukd have thought about that before. Were they really truly good friends or family if they treated like this.

Hold you head up high. You totally got this!

This is really weird, my family doesn’t even know what my company does. Are they all in the same field as you?

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