Anyone had “I would marry this person but my family was in tatters so I don’t subscribe to the idea of marriage nor do I see the benefits except for tax benefits” experience? Did you “overcome” or did you “work around it”?

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Grew up in a dysfunctional family but it never seemed to negatively impact the way I viewed marriage. All of my friends had really nice families with parents who were kind to one another and kind to their kids. My best friend’s parents gave each other lots of hugs, joked together, and just seemed to really enjoy life. I suppose if I didn’t have them to look to then things would’ve been different. Nevertheless, I looked at my own f’ed up family and always thought “damn. I never want to be like ANY of you.”

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