Anyone have any experience with a friend fall out and how did you address it? I recently realized a friend who I thought was my best friend may have only spent time with me because I initiated all our hang outs. I had an injury recently and they didn't really ask to hang out or give me a call. I didn't ask her to spend time with me because my other friends have been reaching out proactively to check on me. Now I am not sure if I want to be the first to initiate anymore.

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Then don’t. If the person comes around, you can decide to respond or not. It’s good that you’ve become aware it tho!

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I’ve had best friends I had a fight with that I didn’t talk to for a year then they came back into my life and have been great. This person may not know how to deal. I’d be upset if I were you, but also- it’s hard to make friends today, so I wound discard easily. Maybe just shuffle your hierarchy a little.

It’s sad when that happens. But it happens unfortunately. A friend I consider a brother didn’t check up on me at all when I got sick couple of weeks ago. I’m still salty about it. So I get what you’re saying.

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