Anyone in a long distance marriage and struggling to move to a city because of visa issues? Wanted to see what strategies you might be using to move to the same place.

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I had one for 1.5 years in two different cities. We did so to get i140 approval for each of us. After that my SO moved to the same city as I am with new job. Glad we did this coz with this orange whiny little biatch in whitehouse, we have a fallback safe option

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