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D1 nice way to pick up smart ambitious women.
There is a way to balance family and career, but it does take work. And it has to be a partnership. I'm a mom, and I wouldn't trade it.
If you're looking for a mate, you should move to Australia. Everyone is a mate there
Family-oriented is a loaded term, and also a bit dated. I would like a kid, and love my parents, sure, but my orientation has always been towards my work.
I'd know because I am one! 😉
Too bad I moved away from DC not too long ago. I pretty much want my power couple partner.
@P1 In response to your first post, I'm white. To your second post, I think that you might be an example of what I am frustrated with. I'm serious about my career and achieving related goals, but I'd like my focus, as well as that of my potential future wife to be on our family. ...The reality is that looking back (when I'm older) on relationships / events with my family will be more enjoyable & satisfactory than any promotion I got, etc.
I think your statement is misleading about wanting someone who is ambitious as your are but wants a family. There is only so much time in the day so a lot of times it's either one or the other not both
@D2 what's up girl. Haha
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C2- both is possible, but with a ton of help (cleaning service, nanny, etc)
@OP, you sound perfect. 🤔 How old are you?
Are you Indian?
Go to young adult events at your place of worship. Also, be one of those dudes in the office who leads LeanIn circles and makes it more feasible for ambitious women to also be mothers.
I totally disagree-- single woman over here! But courtship and marriage need a few solid years prior to kids. And business school.
@DOP ;)
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D1 what you are saying is essentially you are outsourcing your personal life including raising your kids
D1- never said it was ok, but seems to be how dual-career people make it work. I don't have kids yet, but based off of all of my "informational interviews" with dual-career couples (and my own research), this seems to be the most common way the people make it work. Clearly not all do or can even afford this, but it is one option. I actually have very mixed feelings on this topic and would prefer to stay home with my future kid for at least the first three years, but I am unsure if that will be an option for various reasons. Also, my parents 100% outsourced their responsibilities.
How sad is it that consultants are so desperate they resort to an anonymous app to look for dates. Good luck, OP.