Are we gonna spend all day feeling bad about being single or should we go enjoy our empty schedule?

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Enjoy the time while you have it. The mom life is demanding 24*7 once you enter it.

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Enjoy it! The freedom…

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Being single is the only way you can master yourself and unlock your fullest potential. You cannot do it if you distracted by love or romance.

I'm not single now, but for much of my life I was. I spent some time feeling sorry for myself, but I spent MORE time doing thing I enjoyed doing, whether it was hiking, hitting the gym, playing video games, hanging out with friends ...

This is not a judgment on you AT ALL, but something I learned for myself: like it or not, I was single. Why not enjoy the time that is given (while still putting myself out there, and eventually meeting my spouse). What advantage is there to feeling bad about yourself?

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