Are you financially better off or worse off than your parents?

Were your parents first gen immigrants?

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Better. My dad makes about the same money I do now and never thought he’d make that much in his life. He’s 73. The most he ever made in his life before 69 was 30k in a year and now he’s at 250.

He was an immigrant

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After I graduated college he changed careers and started selling insurance

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No & Yes. Dad was a surgeon. No Tech job can compete with that.

Better, yes

No, and no

Currently make a fraction of what they do

Worse and yes. My parents immigrated from Europe as small children so maybe not the true immigrant story

Better

No

No no

I make more but they are happier than me

Better, yes

Worse and yes

Better. Yes

Wouldn’t say better or worse. Non immigrant white folk. Neither of my parents had degrees. Dad worked his way up to running a department at a hospital. Mom worked her way into software sales and did well. They both were in 6 figures. However if we’re comparing by amount made by age I’m doing better

Way better. First Gen college grad here

Better, my mom is a teacher and my dad is homeless. They both live off of their rich parents lol

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