As a Male, ladies what's a date that would let you know that I am serious about taking the next step?

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What kind of and how many dates have you been on already? What do you mean as the next step? This is going to look different for every situation.

Short answer: plan a thoughtful trip

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I don’t care about fancy dinners or how much money you spend on a date. It’s the thought and effort that counts for me.

Do you consistently show up? Communicate clearly and don’t leave me guessing? Do I feel secure with you? If the answers to those is yes, I’d be comfortable taking the next step.

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June 26th

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Taking me to Harry Winston 😁

What is the next step you’re serious about taking?

Skiing with me...going for a long paddle in the lake (I live near Tahoe), followed by a leisurely meal and chatting about life...exploring a hiking trail where there's no distractions...introducing me to your dog.

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