At a crossroads in my life where i am not succeeding as a lawyer and unsure if its the work, me or the firms I've been at. Unsure of where to go from here, got covid laid off, was looking for a role for months landed a nightmare firm and got terminated abruptly (firm has a pattern of going through associates every 4 to 6 months). Anyone been here before and come out the other side?

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I had both of those things happen to me (even down to landing at a similar second firm and getting canned after 6 months for no reason).

I went through some dark dark times. But I picked myself up, again, “pressure makes diamonds” and all that, and found my niche, grinded like crazy, and never looked back.

You got this.

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Can I pm you? Curious to hear how you found yourself and made it through this.

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Sorry to hear this. I’ve been in a similar situation, it took me a while to find my sea legs in the industry. I stuck it out and stayed the course because it’s something I was passionate about and knew I wanted to do. To qualify, I was specifically focused on niche area of law and knew what I wanted to do. I would say to just make sure this is what you want to do as you career and if so stick it out and have passion for it. Otherwise, apply that JD towards something else, it really opens up many doors outside of practicing law.

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What do you want to do, OP?

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