Baby on the way! Any tips for two working parents post paternity leave? Is it possible to WFH with a new born and not pay for day care?

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As the dad two two kids I can guarantee you that you are waaay underestimating how much work it is to raise a kid.

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I've managed a day here and there if it's an unplanned emergency and I'm not running a workshop or something. People on your team understand in that case. But you can't expect people to flex for you like they'd need to if you did that every day.

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I don't want to alarm you, but a kid is going to do a number on your mental health. In a WFH world, you do not want to complicate / conflate work with child care. You will neglect both.

You can go for a part time caretaker at home.

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