Curious if there are any single parents that have more than 1 kid? Tempted to try for number 2 but being a single mom of more than 1 kid is scaring the $hit out of me.

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I only have one. Why do you want to have more? I'm already struggling with one.

I plan on having 2 kids on my own specifically because I’m on my own. They at least will have each other throughout their lives

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