3rd yr here in a mid size firm. I’ve been struggling in the mental health dept. I was on leave for 3 wks and have returned to work in June. However, i still feel like a corpse everyday and have zero motivation to do anything. I have noticed my work product declining and I feel extremely burnt out with no hope for the future. I have been trying to get appointment with a psychiatrist but they are either not working or booked up. I want to get better but don’t know where/who to turn to. Advice?

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I know this is not by any means, a cure for depression/lack of focus, etc., but I go to dark places sometimes and hit walls so hard sometimes. I pretty much have 2 speeds. Fast and stop.

I find working out, even if it’s just a walk outside, drinking tons of coffee and green tea (or taking L Theanine supplements) and putting my phone completely away help keep me on track. The phone is the worst distraction ever.

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I was on medication way before I had a child. The medication controlled it very well. Post child, it has been really tough. I added wellbutrin and that had helped a bit. But when part of the problem is exhaustion, meds can't fix that.

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Do you have teledoc access? My copays are waived through September and it includes psychiatrists (and counselors if you don't have one). You might get in faster with a teledoc dedicated option.

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The is free confidential assistance available through the DC Bar Association.


https://www.dcbar.org/bar-resources/lawyer-assistance-program/contacts.cfm

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Have you looked into therapists who are doing video appointments right now? It’s not ideal, but maybe you can find someone more easily that way. Hang in there and keep trying to find someone. It gets better with help.

Can you go to your primary care provider and ask for a referral to a psychiatrist to speed up the process maybe ? You are not alone in your depression.

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