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I was diagnosed at 8 years old and struggled like hell in school and work without medication all those years. I approached my doctor at 38 about meds because I was falling so behind at work that I was about to be on a PIP.
Ever since I found the right dose, I can function at work in the way I want to. There aren’t as many days that I can’t make my brain “go”.
I skip medicating on weekends or days off.

I understand the need for studies but asking if we’re using meds as a “crutch” is a red flag to me. I struggled for decades when I could have been excelling at the same level as my peers.

Would you ask someone with diabetes if their insulin medication is a crutch?

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I went without meds as a child by failing and struggling. My GPA was 2.3

Happy that it interests you but your language is harmful

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I kinda get what you are saying OP. It’s like ADHD is nothing but a disease that needs to be cured with medication. But it’s not just a disease, it’s a different kind of brain with its own pros and cons. When I’m not on meds, I do so much, in a very unorganized or “unproductive” way but I can be happy. I do mediocre art, I am witty and personable in social settings, I feel like life flows through me very naturally. On meds I get shit done but I do feel like if I had a job which was more suitable for my intelligence (which I think is more creative/emotional), then I really have no need for meds. And I understand this varies from people to people, but we have created a world where we can only be successful if we fit in the boxes made for neurotypicals…

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Oh I remember reading this years ago!

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Do you have ADHD and if so are you on these meds? Do you function better with or without them?

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Yes, and I’ve been on all the meds at one time or another. I do function better with them,

I also function better with cocaine. I sleep better with THC and I socialize better with alcohol.

I don’t doubt the efficacy of the meds. I wonder if they are increasingly being prescribed as a performance enhancer.

The rate of diagnosis is 8 times in USA as Europe. And 75% of college students in us admit to taking meds to help.

My question is hypothetical and written to stimulate discussion and debate. I don’t question anyone’s Dx or need for their meds -

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If you read up on the history of people with disabilities, society used to throw people away or lock them in sanitariums or perform horrible medical practices to those who were atypical. Who knows how much amazing talent and skills have been disappeared from history because of this prejudice and lack of understanding. Medicine allows people to have fulfilling lives and access parts of themselves (like genius) that would have been overlooked even 50 years ago. There is no reward or advantage or benefit to being miserable and struggling. Medicine is a huge win for all of us.

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I can only speak for myself but I don't know how I would function without adderall. I don't take it every day, only when I really need it but it makes a world of difference. Some people really do need to be on meds.

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