Does anyone else get really bad Asian glow? Or am a total lightweight like me? Pretty sure I’m allergic to alcohol. I see Asians at events drinking crazy amounts with no issues. Am I alone? 😭

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around 40% of East Asians have ALDH2 gene that causes this. So no, you are not alone.

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Yes, you are alone ;)

I get blushed after a beer and people think I'm drunk already. Lol.

Same... :’(

OP have you tried taking an antacid? Granted I know it’s hard for spur of the moment happy hours, but maybe at a next planned happy hour, you could try and see if it helps?

Same with me

Well u don’t know what they go through after they leave the happy hour / parties after all that indulgence...

Japanese firm. If everybody else is red, then it's not as weird lol

Same here, 3 glasses of wine is all I can take

3 glasses?! I’m done after 1.5. Wine definitely affects me the worst

I’m the complete opposite; no Asian glow on any alcohol type. However I’m “expected “ to have Asian glow by Asians and non-Asians alike and often assumed that I didn’t drink...ended up taking more shots than others as they don’t believe me

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