Dreaming of a very specific vacation, and looking for help.
I am a 35 gay male who is used to staying in fancy hotels in big cities across the world. This time around I am looking for a small town (likely in Europe) where I can rent a cute Airbnb, walk to/from everywhere in the town, drink coffee and eat pastries in the mornings, walk to the local bar(s) at night, and just really get away from reality.
Does anyone have any recommendations?

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Nice/Monaco, Dubrovnik, or Porto.

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@BCG1 true, but Porto's population is nowhere near 1M

Lisbon - I can't emphasize this any more strongly. An absolute gem of a city

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Was coming here to say Lisbon too!

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Somewhere in Italy probably, not sure where exactly but following cause this sounds like a dream lol

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Puglia, Italy!

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Do you want to travel together? ;)

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Seems like my cold dating request is rejected 💔

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Sitges

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Can recommend, went there unknowingly with a buddy (both hetero). Quite a surprise 😅

i just re-watched master of none and modena, italy would be a good fit!!

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also it’s still fairly close to Amsterdam and it’s a small city but I also loved Utrecht

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Pick a country and there will be a place like that. Spain country side, Italian wine country, south of France, all have exactly what you are looking for. If you want to get a little more adventurous, Germany, Greece, Belgium, etc. all have the same.

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Ljubljana
Gdansk
Bruges
Toledo
Santander
San Sebastian
Granada
Algarve
Tallinn
Budva
Strausborg

And so many more great places...

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I second strasbourg! Beautiful downtown, amazing food, and great drinking culture. Plus it’s a jumping off point for Alsatian wine country, which has even cuter little towns

I would recommend Bordeaux, France. Such a beautiful place.

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Antibes

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Bookmarking this thread forever

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Dingle, Ireland

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This is also a great suggestion.

Tivat, Montenegro (perhaps still fancy hotel), small town feeling but not a lot of gay...

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I came to recommend Montenegro as well. I knew someone from the Balkans and he said folks that live there vacation in Montenegro instead of Croatia. I’m wondering if Montenegro is going to be the next Croatia.

Leon, France. Amazing and severely underrated!

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Ha, yup...Lyon. Which apparently is also underrated by autocorrect.

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Someone mentioned the areas surrounding Koln which I totally agree with and I would go further and say Bonn. An even better option could be Nienburg if you really want to get away

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Can confirm - lived in Bonn for almost 2 years - it’s a great city. Lots of hiking in the “siebengebirge” - a local series of seven mountain peaks just outside town (try Königswinter). The Rhein, great food and a quaint old-world Euro vibe in city center.

Salzburg

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Second Salzburg, stunning city.

All of Croatia

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Toledo, Spain.

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Not a super small town, but loved Florence. Pretty walkable to get to shops, cafes, museums and restaurants. Only thing you might need a taxi is if you want a view from the Piazzale Michelangelo otherwise all very walkable from a centralized B&B. Perfect solo trip imo.

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