For those here who are better off than average, how did you build your wealth? I'm not looking for advice on building my own, just curious about what path other people took to get
to where they are today

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I paid myself first through automatic investments (don't miss what you don't see). I then lived below my means on the rest. It always made me feel broke so I spent frugually.

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I do the same thing and recommend it to my friends. I do direct deposits to my investment accounts and my Roth IRA, and send the balance to my checking account for all my living expenses.

We've done it the boring way. Earn a decent salary (and keep progressing), invest a good percentage off the top, and let time do its thing.

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Honest answer: My parents are well-off, have gifted me substantial amounts, and continue to support my household. Only a small part of my current net-worth can be genuinely attributed to work or personal decisions.

Remember that many well-off younger people are beneficiaries of generational wealth.

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Or luck (risky investment that paid off) or engineered luck (entrepreneurship and having the right product/service at the right time). I don't have that risk tolerance or people tolerance though, which may explain why I'm an accountant.

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Understanding where the money is going to is the first step. The rest is planning ahead. May be a simple answer, but many find it hard to do it right.

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Can you elaborate? Understanding trends and opportunities?

We waited a long time to have kids which I think allowed us to save more. We lived below means and salary grew a lot over years. We contributed monthly to savings and increased the savings rate every year when we got raises.

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Spend less than you earn

Saved between 35-40% of my salary, which ties into a lot of the good financial advice above concerning how to manage your spending.

I grew up poor so I spend frugally. Every Starbucks you skip adds up. If you shop for groceries you buy from the circular and not the brands and foods you have a hankering for. Take public transport. Put the savings in an index fund and max out your retirement. Anything left over gets transferred to a online bank account that you never touch with a decent savings rate. Go out once or twice a month and have beers with friends at home other weekends. Buy clothes during thanksgiving and July 4 sales. Only buy vacations on points from credit cards or consulting travel. Meal prep on Sundays for the week so you make the foods you like in bulk and freeze them. When you have to take Uber, instead take Lyft and choose the wait 15 minute option which often can save $5.

I’m now 40 with a house in a tier 1 HCOL city and a small 1 bedroom in another tier 1 HCOL city (that I intend to rent out) and a 3 floor rental in a LCOL and 750k in retirement and 70k in emergency fund.

I don’t have a Porche or a luxurious life by consulting standards but compared to how I grew up I totally feel rich as hell. No kids until 5 years ago and single income. I still meal prep for the kids and fam. Send $1k a month to parents. Intending to send $2k once I rent out my 1br. Still living frugally because planning for retirement but also am making sure to take vacations (non luxurious) a few times a year and 1 luxurious one with my partner (usually where a chunk of bonus money goes)

To be fair this is on an SM salary but I think OP is SM.

Investing in the stock market and finding an underpriced property in a HCOL city with a strong real estate market.

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