For those of you who try cases on a semi regular basis, are any of them out of town? I have cases all over the state and will have trials where I have to spend 2-4 days away from home. Wondering how those with families handle this.

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It’s like any other work trip. You get a hotel room close to the courthouse, and your family stays home. If it’s a long trial, your family can come visit on the weekend.

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Some practitioners bring their families with them—it all depends on your family and your resources. Sounds like your concern is rooted more in how your family will manage without you during that time. Build up a support system—family or friends who can help with pickups and drop offs, hire help to come in once that week and clean while you’re not there to, help meal prep before you leave, etc.

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I’m not sure what there is to handle. I call my kids in the morning and at bed time. Otherwise, I text my wife.

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My wife works in the medical field and I share half of the household duties. It seems like if I start regularly leaving for a week at a time it’s going to be an issue.

Well I think you just have to deal with it
I don’t think there is a real solution besides you call them when you can and she has to take over when you are gone

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