Friends, I need help. I physically can’t bring myself to do work when I’m at home. Meanwhile, when I’m at the office, a coffee shop, outside, etc., I’m a machine. Has anyone experienced and overcame this? My commute is an hour and 15 mins each way so simply “going in” everyday isn’t feasible :(

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Yes. Haven’t quite figured it out. If I have something pressing to do when I’m home, I’m ok. Other than that, it is half a day or so. I make up for it in the office though.

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In law school, people would have a zoom call going with one or two other people, but everyone would just study solo and not talk or anything. I guess it holds you accountable for working instead of messing around and getting distracted. I never tried it, but some people were in to it. You could try it with a friend or coworker who also works remotely

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I use the website focusmate for this. It's great!

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I have the exact same problem and a similar commute. I wish I had the answer.

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To work from home, I work from the easy chair in my living room, but I dress business casual. Dressing a certain way does something. I also wear nice shoes. The shoes do a lot.

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Ahh im glad this works for you! I’ve tried dressing up and moving locations within my house but it still doesn’t work

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Have you heard of the Pomodoro Method? It helps me when I have trouble focusing at home. You do work for 25 minutes, then take a 5 minute break. After 4 consecutive work intervals, you take a 15-30 minute break.

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I was hoping a coworking space would help, but they are so expensive!

Is there a coffee shop near your house you could go to on days you’re not commuting to office

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There is but it’s very loud and makes calls difficult, and is not a practical place to be for a full 8-hours

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